Traim intr-o societate a carei unitate de baza este familia. Fiecare dintre noi ar trebui sa se gindeasca din cind in cind la viitoarea sa familie, aceasta ii va asigura un viitor mai linistit si mai prosper. Important e sa nu aminam aceasta meditatie pe miine, ci sa ne incadram in ea de pe acum, astfel incit sa nu fim prinsi "cu garda jos" atunci cind vine momentul sa spunem "I do" in fata altarului ;-)
La baza oricarei familii este un cuplu, deci primul pas in schematizarea viitoarei familii este schitarea cuplului care o va construi. Oricare cuplu include 2 membri - un baiat si o fata, deci si 2 puncte de vedere diferite asupra viitoarei familii si asupra metodelor de a o face fericita.
Studiul organizat recent a avut scopul de a descoperi care sunt asteptarile fetelor de astazi. In asa fel am facut primul pas catre intelegerea elementelor care constituie o familie perfecta (sau maxim apropiata de perfectiune).
Si nu in ultimul rind, acest studiu poate fi folosit in reverse engineering, pentru a putea 'da' ceea ce se 'cere' ;-)
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Comment from: gr8dude Member
Hmmm… Your observation is indeed very interesting, I never thought of it.
If (one day) there will be another study about males, then I’m afraid I’m going to have to force you to be a member of the research team :-)
Such a study will definitely help us reveal whether you are correct or not, and your contribution will be greatly appreciated.
Either way, even the non alpha-males get married eventually, and have children; therefore at a certain point in time a woman will ‘lower the bar’, so that an ‘outsider’ becomes a potential target.
It could also be a cause of the rather abstract descriptions given by girls; at times they are so generic that there will be a long list of different candidates that match the template. The second study will set the dots on ‘i’… One day…
I was having a conversation about women/men the other day. Isn’t it interestaing that guys want different types of women, while women want one type of man?
For example, a guy might look for a skinny dumb brunette, a smart red-head with an athletic composition, a very curvy submissive blonde, etc. Some guys choose wives less intelligent than them or with inferiority complexes. Other guys choose wives that are smart and driven, because they might like the challenge.
However, for women, they all seem to be looking for the same type of guy. Generally, it’s a man who is taller than her, with an intelligence as equal as hers or higher, confident, athletic (healhty), sociable, and family-oriented.
Women worry about their security and the well being of their future offspring, and that is why they look for the “alpha male” which (more or less stereotipically) has the characteristics listed above.